To Be Or Not To Be ?

Hey everyone Mal Mal is back again. I swear I'm turnin into a hardcore blogger hay hahaha xD . Ok today's topic is about being confused with our feelings towards someone and yes.. confused with a person ur gaining an interest in and remember what I say about confusion and our hearts?? Yeh well here goes... today i realised... I'm gainin a slight interest in someone..she is slowly capturing what happens to be a lil piece of interest in me but then again comes the confusion.. cause I do not want be hurt trying to make my mind up and furthermore I do not want to be putting my hopes up that there is something between us.. sure there is chemistry but is it friendly or more of an interest chemistry?? I've been searching for a girl.. for way to long now... 3 years since my ex... and I've finaly started searching for that 'RIGHT' girl.. is she the right one??? For those of you feeling the same way I Do.. here are some ways of dealing with this confusion.(regardless if your a boy or girl it applies to all)

- Do You Think Theres A Chance??
- What Should I Do ? I'm Confused??
- Should I Tell ?? Should I Not??

Do You Think Theres A Chance??
MAYBE... but as we all know.. DO NOT & I mean DO NOT get your HOPES up... cause like I said.. chances are it might be friendly? Furthermore it depends on how long you and this person know each other.. if its for a short amount of time,its definately friendly and if its for a long period of time it all depends on the comfortableness being around each other whether you both share alot in common or share the same feelings.. is there touching involved?? is there flirting?? Some of these MAYBE (not definate) signs that shows a sense of togetherness but we can never be too sure if you get what I mean. So if you ask me is there a chance the only answer i can give u is a MAYBE more like 50 -50 not a YES or a NO as I am not GOD and I cannot predict if you two were destined to be. What I'm here for is to give advices and give a way of overcoming.

What Should You Do Now That You Are Confused?
Theres is one thing you can do... explore deeper into this bond you have with him/her as you will never know if this feeling is legit.Sometimes it all takes time as the feeling may not be there now BUT it will be there in a few days to come..bare in mind feelings come and feelings may go and some may crash while others will still build ok? Lemme relate to this two couple I know. My friend Josh(not real name) has an interest in Ailish(not real name to lol) and he only met her recently.. tho he knows that Ailish may not like him... he still tries his very best to try to get her interest. At first he kinda rushed it which got her obviously freaked out.. so he took a smarter approach to lay off the rush and waited..not wait like full on stop talkin to them.. more like waited and be himself..by talking to her frequently,seeing her on the weekends,talkin or textin on the phone.. yeh those sort of stuff. And later in like 2 or 3 months time he finaly decided to ask her out.. he was the shy type so before he could do it Ailish asked him out hahah(funny right??) but you get where I'm coming from. Even if you are confused .. play the safe game DONT RUSH cuz I learned my lesson quite recently... take it slow get to know each other better and soon you will realise.. she/he will finaly have that feelings for you as you have for her/him and another is be PATIENT!

Should I Tell?? Or Not??

Ok... though letting someone know how you feel maybe a lil smart but you will end up
putting them on the SPOT .. which will kinda freak them out if you and her/him aren't exactly close yet(this was the mistake i made trust me dont follow that route). Like I said above give it time and when you finaly realised that your heart could no longer keep this feelings inside, you let it out.So if you met her..like 2 weeks ago dont go up to her and say I LIKE YOU or I LOVE YOU or I AM CRAZY OVER YOU GIRL!!! cause um.. well you will either get a kick in the balls,a slap to the face,pepper spray in your eyes,walked away from,lost of communications,destruction of bond between you both or maybe a lost of a friend(I've seen one happen..nasty shit yo) so.. keep those feelings to yourself for the time being untill you realized its time to let it out.. not within 2 to 3 or 4 weeks of meeting up.. understand???

So yeh.. there you have it.. dont rush and be patient.LONG TIME AGO I rushed and it didnt turn out well so thats the reason why I would like to share this blog with you all today.Now im slowly gainin an interest in this girl.. I've only started hanging out with her for a while.. hopefully there is something between us and hopefully we will understand each other more when time comes. To Be Or Not To Be? It all comes down to the decision you make.. for having someone special next to you is a help to gain another step in our pursuit of happiness. To All. GOOD LUCK