Ever Thought???

Hello Fellow Bloggers & Readers & Other Homo Sapiens..well maybe u martians to.. if you are up there in mars somewhere....eavesdropping.. u stalkerish bum holes...

Ok... Ever thought of telling someone how you deeply feel about them?
Remember About My Last Blog "To BE Or Not To BE" that is the question.. wether to tell her/him or not to... I've been in thinking mode for a while now.. Lemme tell you its not doing me any justice haha as I cant sleep these past few days therefore making up excuses to the reason why I'm tired.Two of my friends are going through the same stage as me at the moment. To my friends here are some questions that you asked me a few days ago which I'm gonna answer in consideration.Furthermore this is also to another friend of mine who is confused over her boy friend as she doesnt know what to do anymore..

1) What Can I Do With These Confusion??

2) BRO! I Read Your Previous Blog.. But I Dont Think I Can Overcome My Confusion.. I Dont Think She Likes Me The Way I Do....furthermore I Do Want TO Get To Know Her More.. Im Goin On A 2 Month Holiday Nxt Week?!?!? HELP!!!

3) I Dont Get Her/Him.. Does He/she Even Feel For Me Anymore??

What Can I Do With These Confusion?
The First Question Tum Tum Ta Dah! Ok... What can you do??? I cant tell you to JUST GET THE MUDAH ASSHOLE OVER IT... cuz thats not how I roll... furthermore noone can get over these confusions especialy when its about your feelings towards someone else.. if i force you to get over it, that will make me a hypocrite because I myself cannot get over this girl I like atm and I wished I could tell her how I feel but... I dont know.. maybe I'm just afraid to make the first move?? anywayz... WHAT YOU CAN DO for the time being is to distract your thoughts as the only way to get your mind off something is to occupy it.. trust me... it helped me for a few hours(better then nothing) I Dance.. so I occupy my head tryna make a routine for the crew... what you can do is think of something you like and Do it regardless if its dance,writing poetry(is good cuz u write ur thoughts 2 words),singing,watching comedy,punch the boxing bag or pillow? or even talk to you close ones about it.. for as long as your mind is occupied..you wont be reminded of the confusion.. thats what I'm doing atm.. im writing you this blog therefore occupying my head for the time being and its also easing down this pain and confusion thats placed in me.

Question 2
Well my friend... like I said give it time... you will build your bond with her sooner or later..eventhough you may be goin on a holiday soon.. let her know that
you will keep in touch with her..but what if she gets taken is why you're worrying cause you know it will bring pain to your heart for you have waited to only see whatever you worked for get washed down the drain...trust me I'm going through the same atm.. i like this girl too and I'm goin Malaysia next friday.. if she is the right one she will wait for your arrival back if she isnt the right one you know the result.. then it will be another Wedding Dress by Tae yang all over again...so what you CAN do not a must.. what you CAN do is still communicate with her.. over the net or by phone(if roaming)if you cant,a letter or a postcard perhaps ;) letting her know you still think of her so that way you might still keep her INTERESTED ? probabaly thats my point of view... or theres the TELL her and GO kinda way which is tell her how you feel before you go... so you will be able 2 give her time to think... if she DOES have a feeling for you then she will take an interest into waiting BUT this only applies if you know her for a long period of time.For you to overcome this confusion you have to MAKE A MOVE! not straight to the point but small baby steps at the time(props 2 my guru apprentice linda for this saying).

Question 3
OK! this one is a different one..this one is 2 a female friend of mine LOL if i said girlfriend people will be like what da fish sticks about it haha but this still applys to those of you who are going through the same as well.
ok... theres nothing you need to get about him..its more of understanding him.. sometimes relationships have its tolls where you suddently fall into a disfunctional 'category' but thats when you need to make it work..I'm preety sure he still feels for you but maybe theres a slight difference?? but that is when you gotta be mature and smart and not take the wrong move and be all UPTIGHT about him being different as he may think you are doubting him which will make his point of view about you change even greatly.. NEXT time if you do see a sign of him slowly changin,do not expose his change but try to fix it ..for example he doesnt talk to you as much anymore all you need to do is talk to him.. if he is tired and doesnt wanna talk dont be all paranoid that he doesnt like you,comfort him and be there just to make him know that you understand his situation and that will in the end COOL him down and make him talk to you.. I've seen it happen as i always do cause I've seen alot of shit happen in my 17 years of hell and if there is another girl involved and you may see him flirting, dont go scolding him tellin him he is an asshole and all because he may get the straight impression that you are just jealous...and as always boys hate the jealous girlfriends... because he thinks that you are thinking of him as the screw up to your relaitonship... if he flirts who cares boys do that all he time..i flirt ima fkin guy for crying out loud.. but if i have a girl.. she is still my ONE and ONLY.. so dont go round blaming him for flirting..UNLESS he starts holding her hand or kissing around or full on hugging in front of you THEN you have the rights to make a move. capiche?? cool off lay low dont be paranoid and dont be upset over small parts dat confuses your relaitonship status.

I'll End It with

Dont Be Confused And Dont Confused Your Heart.. For Confusion Only Leads To Mess Ups. For If You Ever Do Overcome Confusion You Will Gain A Step In Your Pursuit Of Happiness. To All Thanks For Reading And Be Strong No Matter What.. Even The Outcome.Peace