Shyness ? A Postivity Or A Negativity

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SHYNESS

A downfall or an uprising??? Shyness has been an in-kept emotion that lies within our characteristics that is never really certain. It is cause we can be shy whenever we're around someone we like,our boss ,fellow staff workers,friends and sometimes distant family members that we have never met. Many people have asked me how to deal with shyness.. well my fellow bloggers, if you are one of the shy's dont be embarrassed by this locked in emotion..anywayz time for some questiosn *Dum Ta Da Dum!!!

1) Is It Wrong To Be Shy ?!?
2) Downfall Of Being Shy Please Explain ... Any Uprisings??
3) Any way of overcoming?? PLEASE!!!!!

Wrong To Be Shy?

My dear friends... no it is not wrong to be shy.. trust me we all go through the shy phase when we are at the coming of age.. bare in mind some adults do feel shy around others too so you are not the only one. If you are gonna ask why are you shy ? My answer is quite simple.. you chose to be shy.. i bet now you must be saying how the heck can i choose 2 be shy? It is because we have options in life .. to go out to the open world and make a living or to hide from the world without realizing what we are missing. Take it for example you are a hot dude/babe and another hot dude/babe comes up to you and starts a conversation with you only because he/she is interested in you .. but instead of talking you chose to be shy and try to avoid as much interactive conversation as possible..without realizing if you actually do talk to him/her you might be able 2 get acquainted and slowly develop a bond with each other and maybe become an item ? But do understand its not wrong to be shy.. sometimes its how we are brought up? If we are brought up with a family whom is full of life and is open to socializing we wont be a shy person as we are used to interacting with others BUT if we are brought up in a family full of seclusion and less social life we will in fact be brought up being a shy person as we do not have the means to interact with anyone and i mean anyone haha >.< bad isnt it...

Down Falls And Uprisings?

Ok face it there will be less positive effect if you are shy... cuz generally shy people do get their own privacy,they get things done their way,and they might get their own set of friends but that doesnt mean it is a good thing...the downfalls of shy's having their own privacy,things done their way and havinn their own set of friends is that they are sheltering themselves from what is there to learn in the open world.. cause they are not interacting with others therefore not learning the means of socializing with different kind of people and learning different ways of understanding different groups and backgrounds.For example if we place a shy with another shy,they will get along but lets say this shy which is shy B is in the average income background...BUT shy 'A' wants his career to be a whole new level.. so now imagine placing him (shy A) in a group full of wild,party go'ers,movie buff's and high socialising background, that is when Shy A will meet his downfall as he cannot cope with these new and different behaviour as he has no knowledge and background on how to deal with the high socialing side of life...what I'm trying to say my friends is that if we are shy, we are restricting ourselves on the most important part of our lives which obviously comes under the SOCIAL category.

A Way Of Overcoming

Well I cant tell you all the ways to overcome it but I can give u one of the most important ways of overcoming.. which is SELF CONFIDENCE. It is because majority of shys have no confidence in their own selves..hence the reason why they seclude themselves so perfectly well from the open world.. look around you.. even us.. as an individual have a shy side.. girls for example, look at the amount of make up they put on,the amount of clothes they buy,the amount of shoes they collect,the different hairstyles and surgery they take. This comes to show that most girls do this for one thing self confidence(a.k.a self esteem) because they want to look their best and have the confidence they require to walk out their home without having people around them judging for how they look which is why the world these days is messed up as everyone cares for how a person look and not how a person acts. Not only girls but guys themselves.. why do you think majority of guys go to gym and get all toned up(like myself?),pick up dance that impresses,wear clothes that make up stand out and even have those super cool SON GOKU hair styles hehe ^^ it is because boys themselves want to have confidence in their selves tryna impress the girl they like or at least fit in with the group they are with.. but what both boys and girls lack is the amount of self confidence.. so my point of view and my saying is get out of that shy barrier, go out socialize more,learn to socialize,learn to interact with others,learn to understand the means of getting along with others so that in the end you will not regret staying a shy your whole life. If you don't like going out make yourself go out never tell yourself no I'm not going out today because I have no idea what to do.. go out for at least 10 minutes is good enough as within the 10 minute period you will be able to make use of it.. and in the end you will learn to extend your going out time. Alright now the choice is upto you take my advice and you will see the changes.. dont be shy dont be afraid of what people think of you for as long as you be yourself nothing wil go wrong.

For Having Confidence In Yourself And Confidence In Your Decisions Only Will You Gain A Step In Your Pursuit Of Happiness. Take Care Much love Good Luck And God Bless.xx

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